I'm not going to promise you I will be here tomorrow.
I've tried shaming myself to stay because I promised.
I tried telling myself that wanting to go was wrong. That running away is cowardly.
It's actually not cowardly. It's a thing that people do. It's human.
It's not that I want to run away. Not in the way a scared animal would at the first rattle of the bushes.
I'm doing my work around that(am I saying that for you, or for me?)
I might WALK away.
Briskly and decisively.
I might run to the other room and not to another country.
I might even stay for a really long time, way longer than most people think I should.
Whatever I do, it will be my choice.
I can't learn how to walk without putting my own foot in front of the other and seeing what that's like.
I once wished that you would trust me to make the right choice.
Like you trusting me somehow makes my decision more valid.
Can I trust myself without your seal of approval?
Actually, you NOT trusting my decisions is kind of off-putting.
You don't need to agree, but trusting that I am doing what is best for me
is a quality I need in those around me.
And you might have that.
And I still might not be here tomorrow.
So how can I still say you can count on me?
Because I believe that.
I trust myself.