Just started reading "Personal Values" by @IAmMarkManson and it's a game-changer! 🌟 It’s all about defining success on your own terms and aligning your actions with your true values. A powerful reminder that not all goals are worth chasing if they don't resonate with who you

• The Importance of Values:

Values are crucial as they define our sense of self and guide our actions and decisions. Understanding and prioritizing what we truly value can prevent us from chasing superficial goals that don't lead to genuine happiness or fulfillment​

Defining Success:

Manson argues that success is not just about achieving goals but about ensuring those goals align with our core values. If our goals are not in sync with our values, even achieving them can leave us feeling unfulfilled​ (Mark Manson)​.

Satirical Example of Hitler:

Manson uses a controversial example of Adolf Hitler to illustrate how even the most disciplined and focused individuals can cause immense harm if their values are misguided. This highlights the importance of having ethical and constructive values​

Good vs. Bad Values:

Good values are evidence-based, constructive, and controllable, whereas bad values are emotion-based, destructive, and uncontrollable. Manson emphasizes the need to cultivate good values for a healthier and more productive life​ (Mark Manson)​.

Changing Your Values:

Manson suggests that values can be changed through life experiences that contradict our current values. He shares the story of Daryl Davis, a black musician who befriended KKK members, leading them to question and ultimately abandon their racist beliefs

Living by New Values:

It's not enough to recognize better values; one must actively live by them. This requires courage and consistency, but the rewards are significant, leading to a more authentic and satisfying life​ (Mark Manson)​.