Time, and change, moves slowly in small rural towns.

Values come from religion, community is a priority, and traditions dictate the pace of life.

I went to a Catholic grade school. Community sustained the school, and supported the town - even as a Wal-Mart eliminated the small shops. Each year revolved around religious holidays and local fairs.

That quaintness has a downside: A narrow view of the world.

Books help to expand horizons, but they are not the same as physical experiences. I was already someone who questioned everything, but my delicate world view was easily turned upside down by public high school. That, in conjunction with other experiences, led to a negative outlook. Because the ideals I was taught were so far away from the reality.

The way to expansion is through experience and self-education.

I tried new things, talked to new people, and continuously educated myself until I began to see things differently. I wouldn't say I have the most positive outlook now - But it is trending up.

Your roots are the basis for your present.

You can't escape the influences of your youth. But you can decide how they influence you in the present. Which starts with acknowledging the past - and reflecting on how it has shaped your life.

Pull from the best bits, and let the rest go - you'll feel lighter for it.