Allen Au
3y ago
I ditched the tie and got the shorts. I talk about my relearnings of finance + crypto.
The worst question I've ever asked was in 2019 in front of 4,000 Big 4 manager peers, and visionary leader, Salim Ismail. What he had to say has shifted my focus ever since. ๐งต
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐พ๐๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป?
"What skills do you recommend we start learning today, so that we're able to future proof our careers?"
Honest question.
Right?
In 2019, I was a newly promoted manager attending EY Manager Milestones event.
It was 1 week filled with skills-based workshop, career introspection, "networking", and speakers.
On the last day, the big keynote speaker was ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐บ ๐๐๐บ๐ฎ๐ถ๐น.
๐ช๐ต๐ผ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐บ?
โข Serial Entrepreneur, has sold to Google
โข Thought Leader of how companies can exponentially grow 10x
โข Focused on solving humanity's most pressing challenges
Salim's keynote: "๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ถ๐ป๐ด"
โข lessons on how to use disruption to exponential grow
โข history on how enterprises have cultures that prevented further growth and would end up wrecking the business.
Salim painted a world of how emerging technologies and global issues were wrecking traditional systems
The different problems of the world would require specific collections of skills, across all these emerging issues
๐๐ถ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐บ๐ฒ
๐๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐ฑ๐
He had spent an entire keynote talking about skills I don't have, or didn't feel like I'd find the opportunity to try out and hone in on.
When it was Q&A, I decided to ask this front of 4,000 peers
"๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ธ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐๐ฝ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ผ๐ณ?"
Salim: "That's the worst question to be asking.
You've probably learned a skill from a book or took a course, hoping that you'd find the opportunity in the real world to actually use it.
But by the time you use it, it would be irrelevant, forgotten, or worse, not applicable.
๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐บ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐น๐๐ฒ, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐๐ฝ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ธ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐น๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐."
I'm paraphrasing of course & I know there some cringe to this.
I was 99% shitting bricks asking questions in front of 4,000 peers, 1% listening.
I used to take random Udemy or rando course, try different workshops - hoping to pick up any skill in the hopes that I'll find a use for it.
I have shifted toward focusing on finding problems and the people who are impacted by those problems. It's merely coincidental that I picked up a skill or 3 along the way.
It's been a few years, a pandemic, and a career break. I've been able to reflect and refine on his advice.
From: What are the problems I want to solve?
To: Whose problems do I want to solve?
That's how the worst question I've ever asked became a focal point.
If you like these kinds of thoughts, ๐๐๐ฏ๐๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐๐น๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ where I give career-break-fueled introspection.
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