Doing my PhD taught me more than "just" how to be a researcher.
Taking a long time to complete it was also full of challenges, experiences and learnings that impact my life even five years after graduating.
Here are three life lessons I took away from this time:
Don't wait to share ideas and seek advice when you're stuck.
I can't count how often I got stuck trying to figure out stuff on my own and literally every time I discussed my ideas or problems with someone else my progress was sooo much faster.
It doesn't matter if you’re done a day earlier or later but there are personal things that can't wait.
A few years ago, my best friend's father died completely unexpected. I was supposed to attend a conference at the date of his funeral but cancelled to be able to be there for her. I can't even remember which conference it was but I'll never forget the sound of her voice when she called me to tell me about her loss.
Knowing what helps you recharge is vital!
I bought a young horse one year into my PhD and although it was for sure not my most rational decision I am convinced it saved me from burning out during the most stressful times of my PhD - and still does today as I'm trying to manage life as a new mom.
What life lessons have you learned during your PhD?