Let's face it.

You're scared to tell your partner the truth. You're afraid it might ruin things or that they use this information to manipulate you. I get it. It took me years to learn how to be truthful with my wife.

Here's 3 tips to start being honest in your relationship:

Tip # 1 : Start Being Honest With Yourself

At least do this much.

Sure, lie to other people (for now). But at least be honest with yourself. Stop running away from your true thoughts and feelings. If you don't actually love the person, admit it. If you're just passing time, say so.

It's safe to be honest with yourself.

Tip # 2 : Decide What You Want

You have 3 options:

• Share it

• Lie about it

• Keep it to yourself

Think about what you want.

Regardless of the outcome, you can say that you chose it.

Tip # 3 : Set Aside Time to Tell Them

There's never a "right" time to say things.

Set a time, and follow through. I know it's scary, but your relationship will be better for it. Even if it ends.

A relationship ending with truth is 10x better than keeping one with lies.