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15 Easy Ways to Fail Spectacularly
David Blair

I've been making mistakes for years.

Here are 15 tried and true ways of making an absolutely breathtaking mess of your life.

Beliefs

  • Believe you're the smartest person in the room

  • Believe you don't have much to learn

  • Believe the world revolves around you

Money

  • Spend a lot and fail to save

  • Save a lot and fail to enjoy

  • Make a lot and blow it all on yourself

Relationships

  • Make them all about you

  • Assume your way is best

  • Only hang out with people who think exactly like you do

Assumptions

  • Assume the future won't surprise you

  • Assume that bad thing will never happen

  • Assume there's no need to prepare for the unexpected

Work

  • Focus entirely on your success and no one else's

  • Allow your boss to define your value

  • Allow your work to affect your happiness

And more...

Trust me, this is only the beginning:

  • Have a dream? Be content to just keep thinking about it

  • Have a bad habit? Be content to change it someday

  • Have a secret? Believe it'll never hurt anyone else

  • Have some friends? Take them for granted

  • Have a problem? Never ask for help

There are plenty more where that came from.

The point

Of all the mistakes I've made?

There's one that covers 99% of the rest.

Stop growing.

  • Assume you know it all

  • Assume you're good to go

  • Assume you've nailed it

Avoid that?

I'll bet you'll live a pretty rich life.

Failures and all.

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