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Denise Pyles

3y ago

I write about micro-mindfulness to help mid-career tech professionals reclaim clarity and calm so they can show up with presence and peace.

1 Habit All Successful People In Spirituality Have In Common

Most successful people share the same handful of things in common:

  • They make the most of their time with others

  • They know how to commit and complete one goal at a time

  • They know when to ask for help through mentoring, coaching, or therapy

  • They have a robust and persistent work ethic

  • They schedule their time for deep thinking and creative work.

But in spirituality, in particular, I have noticed that the most successful people have this 1 habit in common:

They embrace imperfection as a path toward growth.

And here's why:

There are lines of poetry or a song lyric that can carry you through life, empowering you to embrace vulnerability with open arms.

There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in. - Leonard Cohen

I am a recovering perfectionist, and I know this line from Leonard Cohen in the soul of my being. It is a tangible reminder to embrace vulnerability (imperfection) with self-love.

Here are nine reasons to cultivate the habit of embracing the vulnerability of imperfection as a path toward spiritual growth.

Reflect the Other Side of Light

  • Life is fragile, delicate, chaotic, fragmented, enlivening, joyous, and fleeting, all rolled up into one wild adventure. There is no such thing as a perfect world, relationship, or state of being. There are cracks – in everything.

  • No matter how hard you try to make your life the best life possible, there are fractures in your experiences. You are not perfect. No one is.

  • Living a life of significance means working with and through the fragments of vulnerability.

  • The other side of the cracked space is the venue for light.

  • The fractured fragments are how the light gets in and permeates every fiber of your being.

Let the Light In

  • Life happens – the good, the bad, the ugly, the empty, the redeemed, the forgiven, the remaining hurt, what is left undone, unfinished, shattered, frayed, bare, bruised, all of it.

  • Light nourishes, soothes, heals, restores, holds, and bathes you in possibility. Energy nurtures and makes a way through life.

  • Growth may begin in the dark, but life emerges through the cracks.

  • Let the light bring forth the in-breaking amazement of transformation within you.

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