The simple 9-word mantra I use to combat feelings of overwhelm:
Just over 3 years ago, I quit my 9 to 5 corporate job on Wall Street.
And on my first day without a job (and being a full-time entrepreneur), I burst awake with a strong feeling of freedom & excitement.
"Woah – I can do literally anything I want today."
But as someone who prefers routine & structure, this freedom & excitement soon melted into discomfort. (Freedom isn’t necessarily liberating!)
I spent the first few days trying to make progress in 100 different directions. I was trying to do everything (and as a result, I didn’t do anything).
Then, I stumbled across a little quote inside Derek Sivers’ latest book How To Live – and since reading it, I can’t stop repeating it.
"You can have anything you want, but not everything."
Right away, I recognized how this applied in every area of my life (and was the exact saying I needed to internalize).
Health. You can eat anything you want, but not everything.
Writing. You can write anything you want, but not everything.
Travel. You can go anywhere you want, but not everywhere.
Business. Your business can solve any problem it wants, but not every problem.
Relationships. You can be friends with anyone you want, but not everyone.
Now, anytime I feel like I’m spinning my wheels or pulling myself in a dozen different directions, I pause and repeat these 9 words.
This cures my overwhelm by forcing me to eliminate choices & excess decisions.
But, reminding myself I can have anything gives me the confidence & excitement to go and pursue it–which is the whole point of having personal freedom in the first place!
