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Elliott Porter 🚢

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3y ago

Digital designer & coder(JavaScript) | Parent(Grandparent) | Husband | Stoic | 'Metal' drummer with a soft centre.

There are 3 good reasons why Momento Mori is banishing all fear of my wisdom tooth extraction
Elliott Porter 🚢

Momento Mori is Latin for 'Remember that you [have to] die'.

As I consider current world events, and as an avid admirer and practitioner of Stoicism, my fragility is evident. 

I am having a wisdom tooth extracted today, and with a fear of the dentist, I would usually be in a bit of a state right now before the extraction. 

But I am as calm as a cucumber, and here are three good reasons why. 

As I think about these events, Momento Mori reminds me how utterly wonderful my life is and how insignificant a wisdom tooth extraction will be. 

  1. I could be one of the death tolls in Turkey or a relative of one of the fatalities. The thought of that and how I am alive and woke up today for my extraction with all my friends and loved ones alive and my home intact is a privilege!

  2. I could be part of the Epson College head family and deceased from last weekend. Or, I could have woken up today as part of their surviving families. 

  3. My wife could be missing after taking our daughters to school and disappearing from a river walk, her phone still connected to a company phone call, left on a bench. 

Just think about how any of those situations would make you feel. 

I work my mind that way constantly. I assure you, it not only reframes fears and worries but also teaches you how powerful the meaning of Momento Mori is.

I have zero fear about my wisdom tooth extraction today, as my life is total perfection. My love and comfort are with everyone currently affected by the world's current tragedies. ðŸ’•

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