If I could go back in time, these are the 7 things I wish I knew about dating.

(It would have saved me a lot of unnecessary moments 🙈)

1. Affective responsibility

Be fully aware of your words and actions impact on others. It implies being aware that your behaviours have consequences on the emotions of others, whether positive or negative.

2. Kindness is key

It looks obvious but is often overlooked incredibly within the rush of hookup culture. Be kind and ask for others to be kind to you. If they can't: 🚩

3. Be clear in your goals

Be honest about what you want when looking for a friendship, relationship or casual thing. It will save you drama and misunderstandings that can lead to 💔

4. Know your worth

Beggers can't be choosers. If you enter the dating scene feeling insecure, you WON'T get much validation there. Before dating, know your worth and work through your insecurities. 🙂 It will make you feel better and more appealing.

5. Enjoy your alone time

Dating to avoid loneliness is a dangerous game. It may get you paired with rough partners and make you susceptible to dependency. Date you, and enjoy yourself too! 😃

6. Don't play games

It wastes everyone's time. Just be clear and real. 😎

7. Be curious

Having genuine interest always pays off. You may be looking for a romantic relationship but may end up with a lifelong friendship.