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Ludo De Angelis

3y ago

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2 groups of people were subjected to a hot probe placed on sensitive skin. ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Group 1: Advanced meditators

Group 2: Normies

The meditators experienced the pain as 3x times LESS UNPLEASANT than the normies.

Why?... ๐Ÿงต

1. Meditation promotes space

"I should have thought first before I said that..." ๐Ÿ˜ž

The practice of noticing ones reactions increases the space between a stimulus and your response.

That space is the key to self-control. ๐Ÿ”‘

2. Meditation promotes calm

"Motherf*cker that was f*cking hot" ๐Ÿคฌ

Though one can notice the pain of a stimulus, through meditation we can slow down, calm ourselves and stop our knee-jerk reactions kicking in.

That self-control keeps you calm. ๐ŸŒฑ

3. Meditation promotes presence

"I suffer because I am {excuse/story/reason}..." ๐ŸŽป

We love to weave a story and make things needlessly worse for ourselves.

Seeing pain objectively allows us to manage much more than our normie counterparts. ๐Ÿคนโ€โ™€๏ธ

A. So do you want to be able to...?

  • Keep calm

  • Stay present

  • & maintain mental space?...

Ok, can you guess what you need to do more of? ๐Ÿง˜

Yes, brand yourself daily with a hot iron.

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(no, not really)

B. Studies show that even FOUR DAYS of mindless training can vastly improve your mental toughness and resilience.

Can you commit to four days? Come on now.

4๏ธโƒฃx๐Ÿง˜

C. The more space you can create between the experience of a feeling...

...and the urge to freak-out...

...the more successful you will be in navigating all challenging scenarios.

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That's it! Thanks for reading.

This ๐Ÿงต was inspired by the book #DoHardThings by @stevemagness ๐Ÿ“•

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-Ludo โœŒ๏ธ๐Ÿ–ค

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