Mental biases that lead to irrationality are rooted in 2 negative emotions:
• Desire for pleasure
• Avoidance of pain
In The Laws of Human Nature, Robert Greene explains 6 thinking biases that make us less rational
Let's look into each of them
#1 Confirmation Bias
Finding evidence that only confirms what we want to believe
We want to hear our own ideas and preferences using evidence that only supports that view
How to spot cognitive bias:
Look at theories or concepts that seem a little too good to be true
Examine the evidence by yourself, never by what others put out, with as much skepticism
That's how you escape confirmation bias
#2 Conviction Bias
"I believe in this idea so strongly. It must be true"
Holding on to ideas that are secretly pleasing to us, but deep inside, we doubt their truth
But, we cover it up to convince ourselves & others, hiding our doubts
We told ourselves: "How can it not be true if it brings us such energy to defend it?"
Showing nuances and hesitancy only reveal weakness and self-doubt
Beware of this bias
Because it makes us susceptible to people who display conviction as a way to convince or deceive
#3 Appearance Bias
We believe we see people as who they are
But in truth, people aren't showing themselves as who they are but how they appear to us
These appearances are usually misleading
People are putting masks on who they truly are
Yet, we take these masks for reality, deceiving us
#4 The Group Bias
Believing that the ideas we have are our own
Not coming from the idea of the group we conform to
In reality, Our ideas are shaped by interactions with certain groups we believe in
We adhere to groups because we are social animals by nature
We feel relieved when we find out others who think the same way we do
#5 The Blame Bias
We blame external factors for our mistakes
Not looking closely at what we did, on the inside
Why? Because it is often too painful to look at our mistakes
So we blame others → conditions, circumstances, judgments
It takes into question our feelings and superiority
It pokes at our ego, and our mind doesn't like that
#6 Superiority Bias
"I'm different. I'm more rational than others."
We cannot see our faults and irrationalities
But it's crystal clear for the faults of others
Everything that constitutes our success, we think, comes from natural talent and hard work
But for other people's success, they must have been doing dirty tactics to get to where they are