Does it matter if you are an introvert, extrovert or ambivert, introverted extrovert or extroverted introvert?
I have never really thought about it that much, however recent events in my life have forced me to consider why I am like I am, understand why and frame it positively.
Outwardly I am vivacious, chatty and approachable. Always up for a laugh, a good debate, jokes and a boogie. Inwardly, I lack confidence and love my own company. I'm a human oxymoron.
If an extrovert is stimulated by external factors like social situations and physical activities and introverts find the most joy in inward activities and are more comfortable in more calming environments, what about those of us in between?
What are the signs you might be an ambivert?
You love spending time at home, like your own space but are equally happy hanging out with others and thrive in social situations
You spend a lot of time thinking. You are more in your head than perhaps others realise
You're more vulnerable than others realise
You're not a completely open book. You share but not everything. It depends on the situation you're in
You might come across as confident and carefree or equally, others might think you're quiet
You want recognition but shy away from attention and being in the spotlight
You're selectively social. You choose who you are outgoing with. You have thought carefully about how safe you feel to be more carefree with different crowds.
Most of us are ambiverts. The balance allows us to connect with a wider variety of people. Being aware of where you fall on the introvert/extrovert 'scale' increases your self-awareness, emotional intelligence and relatability with others. Have you thought about where you fall on the scale?