"Finding faults is for those with tired minds." – Rumi.

These words resonate with profound wisdom. In life, we often find ourselves searching for imperfections in others, but what if we redirected that focus inward? The truth is, the energy we expend looking for flaws in others often stems from our own dissatisfaction.

You will get what you strive for; this is the essence of intentionality. If you seek beauty, you will discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. Walk through a park and notice the vibrant colors of the flowers or the laughter of children playing. When you cultivate an outlook rooted in appreciation, beauty will reveal itself in countless forms.

Conversely, if you choose to focus on the rough edges of life, you will find an abundance of that, too. It’s easy to see the negativity that surrounds us, especially when we’re feeling overwhelmed or drained. But consider this: the best approach is to first look inward.

Reflect on your own thoughts, feelings, and habits. What are the weaknesses or insecurities you carry? By acknowledging and rectifying these aspects of yourself, you not only foster personal growth but also shift your perspective towards others. Instead of pointing fingers, you’ll find compassion, understanding, and perhaps even inspiration in their journeys.

The power to transform our experiences lies within us. The more we strive for self-improvement, the more we’ll likely see the beauty in ourselves and those around us. Let’s choose to elevate our minds and hearts, replacing the fatigue of fault-finding with the enrichment of empathy and connection.