If you are not confused at least three times a day, you are not growing enough.

You know the sudden disoriented feeling when you have been consistent with your work, habits, and routines for days. You have absorbed new information, got new insights, and learned something new. Or something/someone forced you to question your dearest beliefs and truths.

Suddenly you feel a strong wave of nervousness combined with confusion:

"What's going on?" "I don't know where I am!" "What should I do?" "Help!"

It feels scary, and you fear you will fall back into the pit.

But in reality, you are riding a growth trampoline towards your success.

Going beyond your previous ignorance to unexplored territory

Bertrand Russell once said, "fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people are so full of doubts." In psychology, it's called the Dunning-Kreuger effect.

In other words, if you want to become wise, you should have confusing doubts.

You are going beyond your comfort zone. In the same way as traveling to a foreign country, everything will be hard.

But you will grow and surpass anyone like CRAZY.

The Antifragile Response - Celebrate your confusion

In the total living philosophy and lifestyle, I define the antifragile response as a positive interpretation of a "negative" event. Whatever happens, is ultimately information that will propel you forward, like an arrow after being dragged backward from your bow.

Therefore, celebrate when the confusion happens.

It's like a major software update on you, an existential jump. Be happy when you suddenly don't understand. Respond positively to the despair and be proud!

Because afterward, everything will click in a eureka moment. The best feeling ever in life!