You are in total presence if you are unconditionally observing what is in your immediate vicinity, without any interpretation or thought from you.
It is the core foundation of happiness, hyperfocus, flow, creativity, trance, mindfulness, situational awareness, peak performance, charisma, maximum listening, and magnetic leadership.
Not only will you be your best self but others will be drawn to you. You are like a magnet who attracts people.
Signs of Total Presence
When one or more of these below:
Your inner monologue is gone
Notice the beauty and aliveness of everything around you
Are incredibly attuned to your own body sensations, light, sounds, and gut instinct
Feel that you do not exist and are completely outside of yourself
Feel that the time has stopped and you can be there forever, guilt-free
Start coming up with a flood of insights and progress
Laugh without any reason, feeling tons of love towards the other
This is your paradise of now
Why you are NOT present
The following hold you back:
You are too attached to your minds
You believe you have to progress and figure out all the time
You believe now is a means to an end
You are not accepting your current reality
Be comfortable with not progressing to stop your minds and become present.
NOTE: It’s perfectly normal to slide off and get back into it.
How to get started with Total Presence
Implement The Barbell Productivity System in less than an hour. If you use a calendar, a list of can-dos, and a note-taking system, you are set.
Write down recurring thoughts, ideas, and negative feelings.
Breath in and anticipate the next thought whenever you are not present
Look, listen and feel intently, like you were a silent observer
(Advanced) Interpret your pain as a massage, like pleasure