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#107: 3 Ways Peer Pressure Impacts Our Spending Habits
by Kristoffer Jan Notario (@RatRaceRunning)

We all have done things we're not proud of growing up because of peer pressure.

For instance, when you were younger, you may have cut your classes, tried vices, or dressed like your peers to fit in. However, another common application of peer pressure is related to our spending. Because of how people in our social circle spend, we may feel the need to do the same and spend how they spend to keep up.

Here are three ways peer pressure impacts our spending habits.

1/ We're Pressured to Buy the New Shiny Object.

Peer pressure makes us feel we have to align our spending with those in our social circles.

For instance, we may buy the latest gadgets, a car, or a house because our peers (workmates, neighbors, relatives, or ex-classmates) are already doing the same. Unfortunately, too many people are pressured to buy things even if they can't afford them yet to avoid feeling like they're falling behind in their social standing.

It's important to have the discipline to overcome peer pressure and safeguard your financial future.

2/ You'll Feel the Need to Try Other People's Experiences.

Social media has affected our generation greatly because, unlike prior generations, we now see what our peers do and buy.

For example, some of your peers love displaying their latest fancy vacation, which compels you to have your own fancy vacation. Weddings (big or small) are also another experience that peer pressure can directly affect. Finally, there are also the harmful experiments that some of your peers can influence you to do, like vices and gambling.

Remember, not everything is worth experiencing. You do you.

3/ You May Get into Debt Because of Peer Pressure.

What do you think happens if you're affected by peer pressure yet don't have the money to spend? You borrow money and get into debt.

It's more acceptable to buy your latest shiny object or try a new experience if you have the money to spend. However, if you need to get waist-deep in debt just to buy a house, a car, a gadget, or a vacation, you may have more financial problems in the future. Getting into debt to buy things you don't need to impress others often doesn't end well.

As they say, you can't keep up with the Joneses.

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