#1. Filipino Time.

Filipinos have a toxic habit of arriving late for appointments, meetings, or gatherings. It may seem like a norm for many, but it needs to change. Filipino time is not good because we're being inconsiderate and disrespectful of other people's time.

#2. Utang Na Loob.

Filipinos tend to impose utang na loob or debt of gratitude to others, especially if they help you with a favor. This can also go the other way, where the beneficiary feels a need to reciprocate for the help received. However, we need to learn to help others without expecting or imposing anything in return. 

#3. Comparing to Others.

Filipinos love to compare. If you grew up in a typical Pinoy household, your parents or older relatives might have compared you and your accomplishments to another seemingly more successful person, maybe a relative, a friend, or even a neighbor. This mindset adds unnecessary pressure to others and may even affect their confidence and plans.

#4. Padrino System.

I've worked in the private and government sectors, and I can say that the "Padrino System" is rampant. There are unqualified people who get government jobs and appointments because of their "backers" while displacing the more qualified candidates.

#5. Smart Shaming.

In recent years, we have changed from a culture of celebrating intelligence to shaming them. People today don't want to be corrected (especially on social media), limiting their learning and changing their perspectives. At the same time, people mock those who voice out research-based opinions. We even have insult phrases like "E di Ikaw na!" 

#6. Pagtatampo.

Pagtatampo, or sulking, is a typical Filipino trait. For instance, if you don't invite someone (especially a relative or friend) to a wedding, a birthday, or any gathering, they will take offense, displeasure, or even grudge against you. I realized those who constantly sulk over not getting invites often think they are important people who should never be left out.

#7. "Bahala na si Batman".

Many Filipinos live complacent lives and wait for things to unfold. They don't plan or try to solve their problems and instead wait for someone to rescue them, such as politicians or responsible children/relatives. 

#8. Crab Mentality.

Many Filipinos have a crab mentality. They are envious, jealous, and even resentful of other people's success. They don't want to celebrate other people's wins but are always on a constant outlook for them to fail. It's like, "If I can't leave my current situation, so can't you."

#9. "Bawal Mangatwiran".

Many older Filipinos believe they know it all, and the younger people have no right to talk back or question their authority. This can be our parents, older relatives, or even bosses who quickly dismiss our valid concerns and questions. 

#10. English Speakers as Intelligent.

Many people often equate speaking in English as a sign of intelligence when it's only a language, a means of communication, much like Filipino. This may also be why many parents today use English at home rather than their mother tongue. You'll even feel intimidated or judged when you talk with fellow Filipinos about speaking in English rather than foreigners.