For online influencers, the scarcity mindset often manifests as a constant need for validation and approval, much like The Vain Man in The Little Prince.
Obstacle: Seeking Admiration
You may measure your self-worth by the number of likes and followers you have, feeling empty without constant praise.
The Vain Man’s Story:
The Vain Man in The Little Prince spends his days seeking admiration from everyone he meets. He is so focused on receiving praise that he ignores any meaningful interaction or self-reflection.
The Little Prince’s View:
The Little Prince realizes that the Vain Man's pursuit of admiration leaves him lonely and unfulfilled, as he seeks external validation rather than inner contentment.
Solution: Embrace an Abundance Mindset
Practical Steps to Balance:
Seek Internal Validation: Focus on personal growth and achievements rather than external approval.
Limit Social Media: Spend less time seeking online validation and more time building genuine connections.
Build Genuine Relationships: Invest in meaningful, supportive relationships offline.
Engage in Self-Reflection: Regularly assess your motivations and values to ensure they align with your true self.
Practice Gratitude: Appreciate what you have, rather than seeking constant validation from others.
Reflective Question: How can you shift your focus from external validation to internal fulfillment?
P.S. In our lifetime, if we're lucky, we meet a "Little Prince"—someone who teaches us to see with our hearts. I was blessed to meet my own Little Prince; he was my student and friend, and he taught me to see with my heart. This is the second of six articles in loving memory of Brayden H. (June 2012 - May 2024) Read more