Spontaneous Speaking

Introverts instinctively think before speaking. Small talk demands a more spontaneous style, which doesn't work for introverts.

• SOLUTION: Have a handful of 'filler phrases' to buy time to think.

Deep v broad conversations

Introverts love deep conversations. Small talk tends to be broader and more shallow, which is a turn off for most introverts.

• SOLUTION: Ask people what they love talking about & go from there.

Talking is Tiring

Talking & interacting are extroverted pursuits. Constant conversation soon empties the introvert battery.

• SOLUTION: Talk less by asking more questions.

Prefer 1-1 conversations

Introverts are more comfortable speaking with one person than entertaining a crowd.

• SOLUTION: Seek out fellow introverts. You'll usually find them hanging alone near the refreshments.