When NOT to make small talk

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Anna Seabourne 💙

1y ago

Helping introverts to Small Talk Smarter since 1996.

When NOT to make small talk

Small talk is as welcome as COVID.

Good news! There are moments when small talk isn't just unnecessary - it's utterly avoidable. No need to make eye contact, think of a catchy question to embark on an unwanted conversation.

Here's a bulletproof, simple formula to determine when to dodge the small talk bullet.

FF + SO = Small Talk Required

  • FF = you're sitting face-to-face, like in an interview or across a dinner table.

  • SO = you have a shared objective: you're both at the same strategy meeting or attending the same cross-fit class.

Tick both elements and you need to start a conversation. Tick only one? Congratulations - you can stand down. No small talk required today!


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