Technique 1: Personal Growth And Development

The primary reason you haven’t found your soulmate is because you aren’t yet who they need you to be.

Focusing on personal growth and development when you are single stage will make you so much stronger mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually in the near future. Doesn’t your future spouse deserve the strongest and most capable version of you?

Once you are committed to growth, it doesn’t matter how long it’ll take for you to find your soulmate because every additional day is another day to prepare.

Technique 2: Establish yourself professionally while there’s no pressure

When you are single, the stakes are low enough to experiment professionally to find the right lane.

The reason many people get trapped in jobs they hate is because they take on the responsibility of a family before they have found the career most well-suited for them. More financial responsibility justifies fewer risks.

Iterate professional roles while you are single to find the right career so you and your future spouse can build on a solid foundation.

Technique 3: create and commit to a daily routine

A daily routine made of spiritual, mental, and physical practices catalyzes consistent progress toward the person your future spouse deserves.

Growth is predictable: more stress, more growth. Write down two actions you can take every day on each of the three fronts. These are mine:

•Spiritual: prayer + spiritual declarations (think a deeper version of affirmations)

•Physical: two walks per day + lift weights/run/bjj

•Mental: publish one original piece per day + books + podcasts + YouTube videos + newsletters

Choose two activities for each category, and begin experimenting. Ditch the ones you don't like. Replace with ones you think you will like more.

Iterate.