I usually summarize what I've heard when I work with my mentors.

This excellent communication technique improves my overall communication in several dimensions. It helps you improve your relationship while getting as much out of it as possible.

Summarize what you just heard to help you and your mentors improve their relationship and create clarity for both parties.

It helps you and your mentors.

Let me break it down to the two parties.

What do you get out of summarizing the advice?

1. When you summarize the advice, you have the advantage of confirming your understanding.

2. You also express the advice in your own words by confirming your understanding, which helps you remember it.

3. Finally, you show that you're listening carefully.

What does your mentor get out of summarizing their advice?

4. When a mentee summarizes your advice, you have the opportunity to correct it if necessary.

5. It's also an invaluable opportunity for you to articulate your opinion on a deep level.