Michael DiMella
4y ago
Managing Partner @Charlesgate | Empowering people to be better real estate investors and leaders | Posts on #realestateinvesting #leadership #entrepreneurship
Want to succeed in your career much faster?
Be coachable. ๐
My entire life I grew up playing hockey. I was pretty good but was not even close to the most skilled.
Yet I ended up with the opportunity to play college hockey at a Division 1 level.
Not many people get that opportunity. And it only happened because I was coachable.
My coaches could trust me to listen, take feedback, and implement it. Again and again.
I got better, and they knew could trust me in the important moments.
That created the opportunities I needed to play hockey at the highest levels in college.
In sports or in business, it's the same.
Being coachable will dramatically increase your chances of success, and is one of the very best things you can learn to accelerate your career.
There are two common challenges that I've seen limit people's coachability:
1. ๐๐จ๐ง'๐ญ ๐ฅ๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ ๐จ ๐ ๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ.
Don't be a know-it-all. Drop your defenses and listen. Your willingness to improve must be bigger than your ego. Be open-minded and foster a growth mindset. Instead of pushing back against feedback, know it's meant to make you better. It is much more powerful to be curious and willing to learn than to be threatened by what you don't know.
2. ๐๐จ๐ง'๐ญ ๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐.
Feedback can be hard to hear sometimes. But you can't take it personally. Nobody is perfect and everybody needs feedback to learn and grow. Feedback doesn't mean you're a bad person or that you're not good at your job. The person giving feedback is someone who cares enough to invest their time trying to help you. Feedback is a gift that fewer people will be willing to give you if they fear all it would do is upset you.
๐ฑ๐ด. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ด๐ฌ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ฃ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ช๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ, ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ'๐ญ๐ญ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ'๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ข ๐จ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ต๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด๐ฆ๐ต. ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ค๐ค๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ณ.