David Jay
3y ago
I'm a Mac guy. Have been for decades. There's one single app I use every day that every other Mac user should download and install today.
JumpCut is a clipboard manager. It does the simple but miraculous task of remembering what you've copied and permits you to paste from that memory.
It's hard to describe exactly why it feels so helpful. JumpCut reduces the window switching you need to do.
Do you need to copy a half-dozen email addresses from different emails and paste them into a single document? Instead of switching between your mail program and your Google Doc, copying one, pasting one and repeating 5 times. You can simply copy each email switch to the doc and paste.
Need to copy the address from one part of a web page and the phone number from another and paste them in an email. Copy, copy, paste, paste.
Keyboard shortcuts make managing your copy paste workspace a dream.
Download it from here: https://snark.github.io/jumpcut/
Try it, you'll be glad you did.
David Jay
🚀Pubished
3y ago
As I wrote about here, "I don't know" is a powerful phrase to improve your leadership. For someone who hasn't developed the habit, the most important way to get comfortable saying "I don't know" is to practice.
Here's how:
Say it to yourself
Your hesitation is probably based on social fear. You don't want to look indecisive at work. You consider it a weakness to do so in front of friends or family expects you to be the decider and you don't want to let them down. So, at every opportunity you have in your internal monologue, say "I don't know."
For example, when reading the news and you're about to have an opinion, practice this:
Will the Fed raise interest rates next quarter? I don't know.
Is Mr. Beast a good guy or bad? I don't know.
Is the dress gold and white or black and blue? I don't know.
No stakes
Maybe you're just not ready to walk through the world with the blissful deliberate ignorance of a bodhi. Like any skills Start with no stakes. A waiter asks what you want for an entree, say "I don't know." Follow it up with "What do you recommend? I'll have that." Your buddy asks if the Cubs will win the pennant? "I don't know. What do you think?"
Small knowings (aka delay)
Sometimes you're in a position where you can't shake the feeling "I don't know" is situationally inappropriate. You're leading a team designing the new fashion strategy and in a meeting and one of your reports asks, "Should we choose the Goose or the Duck image for the fall fowl T shirt?" You're still working on the skill, and not ready to say "I don't know" in front of a group. Instead, take a small step in a direction, gather information from that, and re-evaluate. Your answer could be "Let's draft a version of each and then I'll take a look."
These are three ways to get you in the habit of saying "I don't know" a phrase that opens up opportunities as a leader in business, in the home, and in life.
David Jay
🚀Pubished
3y ago
My work with intergenerational business ownership was described as "trauma breaking" by a colleague yesterday and I can't stop thinking about it.
I can't stop because it's a combination of so accurate and so unexpected.
As a business coach, my elevator pitch includes that my sister and I, each on different sides of the cusp of 30, inherited a small sign language interpreting agency when our father died suddenly. It took us years to figure out what we were doing, and to navigate our relationship, before finding our groove and then, after 12 years, selling.
In that pitch, I don't share the sheer dysfunctionality of our childhood. The verbal and emotional abuse we'd endured separately from our dad who had undiagnosed bipolar disorder and narcissism. How fucked up shit just was when we were kids and young adults.
But somehow, in my clinical description of my professional history to a colleague during a zoom, that came through and he labeled that experience as "trauma breaking" and fuck yes, that decade-long sibling business ownership experience was a process of navigating and resolving the harms of our childhood.
It's an honest reframing of the work we did and the work I want to help others do that invokes in me a higher level of compassion for my clients. Thank you, @scottzuniga
And my sister and I? Selling the business was great for our relationship. Now we call weekly talk about each others families, the weather, and the last season of Succession.
