Before I had kids, I read 70 books a year — including books on writing. At my corporate job, I'd Google the day away, trying to decode the mystery of how to become a writer.

It took 16 years, two kids, and a global pandemic to decide to pursue my dream of writing a novel.

But, if I wanted to do it, I would need some help.

Get a babysitter:

I snagged a sitter for a few hours in the summer of 2020. She entertained my kids while I locked myself in my bedroom and began to write.

This was a temporary situation, so I didn't make it far into my journey before falling off the wagon. But I'd written the foundation for a unique novel.

Create a writing habit: 

Fast-forward to February 2021; I discovered audiobooks — which changed my life as a busy mom.

Listening to Atomic Habits while washing dishes and folding tiny laundry inspired me to start a daily writing habit. After my kids went to sleep, I wrote for an hour every night before watching TV.

Join a writer's group: 

I started two novels and one children's story without finishing anything. I needed structure.

I posted on my local mom's Facebook group to see if anyone wanted to be my writing partner. There was so much interest that I founded a group of fiction writers. We meet every two weeks, offering feedback and support to each other.

If you feel the urge in your bones to write — then write.

Eliminate your obstacles and fulfill your heart's desire.