I read yesterday that you have to risk heartbreak to find love. And this made my smile inside and out.

If you've read some of my pieces, you'll know that I've lived through heartbreak, real aching heart, broken pieces, tears that feel like they are choking you, heartbreak.

But hey!

I survived.

And, I have a lot of love to give, and I want to give it.

I know it's a risk, but I'm prepared to take that risk, because I know there's someone out there who make my heart feel so full. That I'll think wow, the broken pieces were actually just my heart being rearranged to receive the same amount love I have to give.

I have no doubt about this because:

• I am in a position where I love myself. I enjoy my company and I am happy on my journey. My relationship with myself is healthy and I will no longer depend on someone to make me feel loved.

• I have learnt from my past experiences, and no, they are not mistakes, they are lessons. I know what I want, and maybe more importantly, I know what I will no longer accept in a relationship. My past relationships do not define me, they have allowed me to prepare for my future one.

• My belief that trust is absolutely key in a relationship has been reinforced through my life experiences. However I will trust someone until they give me a reason not to. I know 100% that I will build my relationship based on a foundation of trust, and if my gut feeling doesn't feel that, I will trust myself and move on.

• I am not looking for someone to make me happy. I know that my happiness depends on me and I will never put this responsibility on someone else. I want someone to share happiness with.

• The difference between wanting something and needing something has become so clear to me. I want to share my life with someone, I do not need to share my life with anyone. So, I'm in no rush to settle for someone who doesn't feel right.

I know the journey to find love has it's risks, but I also know it's worth it. Love is the most magical feeling there is.

And, I love magic.