Tmann
4y ago
Welcome! I am excited you are here. I use writing to share life lessons and empower each of us to embrace our challenges and find the beauty in the storms.
I started writing online 3 years ago at 53.
Since then, I've...
Written 200+ stories
Starting my own company in Jan 2023
Mentored new writers
Made $ from writing
If I did it all over again, here are 5 things I'd do differently.
#1: Not neglect my needs
I prioritized everyone & everything else in my life.
I believed this was the right thing to do.
It wasn't.
It led to
1) discontentment
2) lack of self-esteem
3) late start to my career
Instead, I should have created more balance in my life
#2. Make my dreams a priority
I thought making my family happy would fulfill me
It didn't
Instead, I should have realized that when something is a calling on your heart, the years don't wipe it away
My happiness is as important as anyone else
#3: Pursued my writing dreams as a young adult
One of my biggest mistakes was always putting things off till "tomorrow."
If I could start again, I would start writing sooner because it
Feeds my soul
Gives me flexibility
Allows me to live a life I have always wanted
#4: Learned not to let #fear tell me who I am or who I can be
I never thought I was a good writer
I believed that only the Hemingways of the world could use that title
I recognize that believing in myself is the first step toward accomplishing any goal
#5 Always remember that I am important.
It has taken me years to realize that I matter. Throughout life, we go through many changes, but through it all, the one constant is ourselves.
Don't neglect the person closest to you, yourself.
5 things I'd do differently to become a successful writer
• Not Neglect My Needs
• Make My Dreams a Reality
• Go after my writing dreams as a young adult
• Learn not to let fear tell me who I am or who I can be
• Remember that my dreams are important—And so are YOURS!