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Kate Volman

CEO & Certified Dream Manager. I share ideas to help corporate professionals rediscover their dreams and unlock their potential by leveraging their creativity.

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Kate Volman

2y ago

Three Questions I Ask Myself Regularly (And Why)
Kate Volman

When I'm faced with a challenge or stuck in my head, I often turn to great questions to help me overcome it. Great questions change our lives, and they're always hiding in plain sight: in books, podcasts, conversations with friends, or even in our favorite shows.

I collect questions and have a list I turn to when a client, friend, or I need a little support or a shift in perspective.

Here are three questions I find myself asking a lot lately.

  1. What do you really want? We can get so caught up in pursuing a dream or pushing toward something that we completely forget what and why we're doing it. This question forces us to stop and think about what truly matters most. Sometimes, our answer surprises us.

  2. What would you do if you could only subtract to solve this problem? I ask this when I feel overwhelmed or when I'm completely overcomplicating a strategy or idea—never a good look.

    We often think solutions involve adding new ingredients to the mix when the best answer is removing something.

  3. What do you know that you're pretending not to know? My coach asked me this the other day, and I absolutely love it. Well, I love it now, but when I first heard it, it felt like a punch to my gut. Yep, the best coaches push us to face our deepest thoughts and our true selves.

What questions are you pondering about these days?

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2y ago

The Most Important Lesson I Learned Writing My First Book
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Last year, I published my first book. Like many people, my mind is full of ideas, each one clamoring for attention. However, it's a lot of work to decide which idea is worth exploring and then turn it into a long-form piece that others will enjoy. It was fun and exciting, sprinkled with frustrations and challenges.

During this new adventure, I became so curious about what it takes to become a great writer that I started devouring every book about the craft I could get my hands on. While each provided many great insights, one recurring idea proved to be true for me while writing my book. And it's this:

Embrace The Messy Middle

I wanted it to be easy. I wanted everything I wrote to be fabulous from the start. But it wasn't. Some days, words flowed easily, and I felt like I could rival Julia Cameron. Ha, wishful thinking. On other days, I glared at my computer screen as if it were my mortal enemy, holding my creativity hostage.

No matter what kind of day I had, I kept writing. I took all the good, bad, mediocre, weird, confusing, and questionable ideas and quickly discovered that our best work is born in the messy middle. It's getting ideas out of our heads and onto the page that we discover what works and what absolutely sucks.

The messy middle is where we give ourselves permission to play, to make decisions about where to go next, and what we want our project to look and feel like in the end.

I do plan to write another book. Although I still secretly wish it were easy, I find comfort in knowing that the creative process is messy and that as long as I keep writing, I'll create something worth reading.

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2y ago

3 Topics I'm Exploring Right Now
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Here are three topics I've been thinking about lately:

#1: Embracing Difficult Conversations

While they may not be fun, having difficult conversations can drastically improve our relationships. Addressing the "elephant in the room" can lead to breakthroughs, whether with a team member, friend, or significant other. The older I get, the easier it has become to talk about everything that needs to be said, even when it doesn't feel great.

#2: Why Leaders Need Poetry

I got super interested in poetry a few years ago while being cooped up at home during the pandemic.

I met some incredible poets on Clubhouse, a social audio app, and learned more about this beautiful art form. Sure, I read poetry in school, but this group introduced me to a new and magical way of experiencing it. It wasn't about rules or getting things right. It was about self-expression, emotions, and connecting with ourselves and each other.

Since then, I've taken workshops and explored the impact and benefits of poetry. Now, I'm convinced everyone would grow personally and professionally by simply reading and even writing poetry.

#3: Decision-Making Process

I've also been thinking about how the best leaders in the world make decisions. From what book to read next to completely changing your business model, we make small and big decisions every day.

I like to believe that we make the best decisions for ourselves with the information we have at the time. It's interesting to hear from others about their decision-making process and how I may be able to incorporate their strategies.

I'd love to connect with others who are also exploring these or similar ideas. If any of the above resonates with you, let's connect.